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Tuesday, April 12, 2011

want to express your love ? When and how ?

hi,
Because many people have a hard enough time
defining their love, expressing it
may be even more difficult. You might get into a
relationship and wonder “Should I say ‘I love you’ before the other person says it?” or “Should I sign an
e-mail or card, ‘Love’?” If you express your love to someone before he or she
expresses it, then you are taking a risk that your
love will not be reciprocated.
Since unrequited love is a painful feeling, try to be
sure you are really feeling love
before you make your pronouncement. If you feel somewhat certain that expressing
your love will be well received, then one way to
convey it is by writing a love letter. It's one of
the most romantic ways to get closer to
someone.
Here are some tips for composing a love letter:
• Make it personal and from your heart.
• Write like you talk. Don't try to sound like a “writer.”
• Focus on the person to whom you're writing. That will help you express your true feelings.
• Express why this person brings meaning into your life.
• Don't be afraid to use words such as forever, everlasting, passion, together, devotion,
fulfillment, and love.
• Focus on writing your own thoughts; you might also want to include famous quotes about
love, or a short love poem.
• Hand write it on a romantic card or stationery. Although expressing your love can feel scary at
first, you shouldn't be afraid to say, write,
or—most importantly show how you feel for someone. If the object of your affection feels the
same way, then you will both know that you
love each other, and that will bring you closer
together. If that person does not respond
positively to your proclamation of love, then it
will help you understand that you have to keep your
feelings in perspective (and to yourself) until
either this person develops love for you, or you
get over him or her and move on.

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